Love & Relationship Coaching
Private Coaching for Women Who Want Honest Love, Not Fantasy
I offer support to help you stop repeating painful patterns in love, rebuild trust after betrayal, communicate without chaos, let go of control, so you can create a relationship that actually feels secure, connected, and deeply real.
I get it babe, you didn’t think you’d ever have to get support with your relationship.
Because this was me too.
I thought relationships were supposed to be easy, especially if you’re with the right man.
But after rebuilding my own relationship after infidelity, I came to understand that secure love is not just about finding the right partner, it’s about healing the patterns, beliefs, and wounds that make love feel unsafe in the first place.
It was this experience where my foundations of what I thought a ‘good relationship’ was got shattered. It was as if I could see everything clearly. The dynamics I was playing into, the patterns that featured in every relationship i’d had, my behaviours that I convinced myself were only present because of him. As hard as the breakdown of my relationship was, I am glad it happened (never thought i’d say that lol), because it made me look at who I was being and what I actually wanted, which at the time were two completely different things.
This is why I do what I do.
I’ve lived it and I know how you’re feeling, because I felt it too. My work is for the woman who wants more than a relationship that looks good on the outside. You want one that feels safe, calm, deeply loving, fun and real.
It’s through relationship coaching, self-responsibility, and emotional healing, I help you communicate without chaos, let go of control, repair what’s been broken, and become more secure in the relationship you actually want.
What I do:
My work is not about surface-level advice or teaching you how to become a more “perfect” partner.
It is about helping you understand the deeper patterns shaping your love life. Your wounds, beliefs, communication style, nervous system responses, self-protective behaviours, and the ways fear may still be leading the relationship.
Together, we work at the root.
So this is not just about feeling better in the moment.
It is about becoming more secure in yourself, more honest in love, more able to communicate clearly, repair what has been broken, and create the kind of relationship you actually want to keep.
This work blends:
relationship coaching
nervous system and somatic support
communication tools
emotional pattern work
intimacy and self-trust healing
lived experience of rebuilding after betrayal
✦ You have been hurt in love but refuse to let heartbreak, betrayal, or old pain define the love you create from here.
✦ Know you are strong, capable, and deeply self-aware, yet still finds yourself overthinking, self-protecting, or struggling to feel safe in love.
✦ Ready to stop repeating painful patterns and take honest ownership of the ways fear, control, and old wounds are shaping your relationship.
✦ Wants to trust yourself more deeply, communicate clearly, and stop letting anxiety or self-doubt lead the way in your love life.
✦ Desire a relationship that feels calm, secure, connected, and deeply loving, not just good from the outside, but truly safe from the inside.
✦ You long to express your needs without fear of rejection, abandonment, or thinking you have to lose yourself in order to be loved.
✦ Are tired of carrying the emotional weight of the relationship alone and want to create real partnership without feeling the need to control everything.
✦ Crave intimacy that feels nourishing, playful, honest, and deeply connected, where you can be fully yourself and truly seen.
✦ You are open to repair, willing to rebuild trust where it is possible, and ready to create stronger love through truth, responsibility, and emotional maturity.
✦ Are ready to create a relationship with yourself and with your partner, that feels whole, secure, passionate, and built to last.
This is for you if:
Together we work on:
✦ Rebuilding trust after betrayal, heartbreak, or rupture
✦ Communicating your needs without chaos, fear, shutdown, or blame
✦ Understanding the patterns that keep repeating in your relationship
✦ Letting go of control, over-functioning, and self-protection
✦ Creating more emotional safety, intimacy, and partnership
✦ Learning how to trust yourself in love again
✦ Stopping self-sabotage and building a healthier relationship dynamic
✦ Creating a relationship that feels secure, connected, calm, and real
“It’s powerful! I have finally managed to overcome limitations and have stepped in to the woman that I have wanted to become. I have grown so much in confidence and self belief and I know my own worth and can set clearer boundaries.
You owe it to yourself to do it. There is no attraction without action! If you truly want the growth that you desire then you need to act on it.”
— Anerleigh
CLIENT STORY
What You’ll Receive…
✦ Private Zoom sessions
Deep, focused coaching sessions where we move at the pace your body and heart are ready for. Together we’ll gently unravel the fear, shame, and protective patterns keeping you stuck in survival mode.
✦ Telegram support (Monday–Friday)
You don’t have to hold it all in until the next call. You’ll have private access to me via voice notes for in-the-moment guidance, reflection, or just someone to hold space when the emotions feel heavy.
✦ Tools to rebuild trust in yourself and in love
Betrayal can make you doubt everything, especially your own intuition. I’ll guide you back to a place where you can trust yourself again, so every decision you make comes from clarity, not fear.
✦ Guided somatic + nervous system practices
Simple but powerful tools (like meditations, body-based practices, and journaling prompts) that help your system feel safe again, so you can soften, release fear, and reconnect with your body.
✦ Frameworks to break painful cycles
We’ll uncover the patterns that led to betrayal, like self-abandonment, perfectionism, or emotional disconnection and give you clear pathways to stop repeating them in love.
✦ Communication & boundary support
Practical tools and scripts to help you express your needs without fear, set healthy boundaries, and feel safe being fully seen in your relationships.
✦ A safe space for full emotional restoration
This is where you get to lay it all down, the grief, the rage, the doubt, the love. No performing, no judgment. Just compassionate reflection and support as you come home to yourself.
✦ Personalised integration steps after each call
You’ll always leave our sessions with practical, embodied next steps so you don’t just talk about change, you actually live it.
Intimacy Matters
There’s nothing that compares to being fully witnessed in your healing. Sitting with someone who’s been where you are and knows how to walk you through it.
Because you don’t just need more “advice.” You need depth. You need context. You need someone who understands the why behind what you’re feeling, not just the “what to do.”
The answers aren’t one-size-fits-all. They depend on where you are in your healing, what your body is holding, and what your heart truly wants.
That’s why Intimacy matters.
It’s not about following generic steps you read online or advice from someone who’s never lived this pain. It’s about being guided by someone who’s walked through the betrayal, rebuilt safety in love, and can help you see clearly what you want for yourself.
And that’s exactly why I do this work, because you don’t just need to know healing is possible.
You need to feel it, in real time, in a space where your shame, your fear, your love, and your power are all welcome.
“Jess will dive into places that you didn't know where still limiting you, she provides different ways of tapping into different versions of you which all count.
You won't regret it!”
- Ava, Private Client
Private Coaching is for the woman who craves depth, truth, and lasting change.
It’s for the woman who’s done pretending she’s “fine,” who’s tired of holding it all together while secretly breaking inside.
This is for the woman who:
✦ Wants to stop repeating painful patterns
✦ Refuses to keep abandoning herself just to keep the peace
✦ Knows she’s worthy of creating the relationship she’s always wanted
✦ Is ready to feel safe, wanted, and fully herself in love again
We’re past quick fixes.
We’re past numbing, overthinking, or trying to “figure it out” alone.
You’re ready to commit to deep, in-depth, 1:1 mentorship where every part of your heart, your fear, and your desires can be seen, held, and healed.
Because this isn’t about surviving heartbreak.
This is about rising from it and finally experiencing the intimacy you’ve always craved, with yourself and in love.
This is where everything begins to change
VIP 3-Month Intimacy Programme
For the woman who wants high-touch support, deeper intimacy work, and real relationship transformation. This is the most intimate and immersive way to work with me.
It is designed for women who want close support as they move through a significant season in love, whether that’s rebuilding after betrayal, transforming deep-rooted patterns, reconnecting emotionally and intimately with their partner, or learning how to create the kind of secure, nourishing relationship they may never have experienced before.
Includes:
12 x 90-minute Zoom sessions
Session recordings to keep forever
Personalised homework and practices between sessions
Weekly voice note support, Monday to Friday
Investment:
£3,333
*Payment options: pay in full or 3- or 6-month payment plan
The Repair Intensive | 6 Week Private Coaching
For the woman who wants focused support and real movement, quickly. This container is for you if there is a clear issue asking to be worked on now - whether that’s betrayal recovery, rebuilding trust, emotional chaos, fear-led control, painful conflict cycles, or self-sabotaging patterns in your relationship.
This is a high-support, short-term container designed to create deep insight, practical change, and emotional movement in a focused period of time.
Includes:
6 x 90-minute Zoom sessions
Session recordings to keep forever
Personalised homework and practices between sessions
Weekly voice note support (Mon-Fri)
Investment:
£1,777
Payment options: pay in full or 2-month plan
My private coaching is about meeting you exactly where you are, whether that is in the heartbreak, the confusion, or the rebuilding, and guiding you toward the safety, trust, and love you deeply desire in yourself and your relationships.
We go deep, to the root, working with the nervous system to gently unwind the shame, fear, and protective patterns holding you back from the life, love, and connection you know is possible.
This isn’t about surface-level quick fixes.
This is about profound transformation.
I weave together Somatic Experiencing, Internal Family Systems, Parts Work, and Feminine Embodiment to support you in rebuilding self-trust, releasing the fear your body has been holding onto, and healing the parts of you that still feel unworthy of love. This work is about helping you reconnect with your intuition and your voice so you can feel safe to express your needs and desires. Most of all, it’s about experiencing intimacy in a way that feels nourishing and honest, where you no longer lose yourself in the process of loving another.
Ways to work with me:
Hi! I’m Jess,
I’m a devoted partner, mother to a beautiful daughter, and a coach for courageous women like yourself. It’s my greatest honour to support women in reconnecting with their feminine energy so they can live a life filled with more authenticity, confidence, and love.
I coach women through polarity, feminine embodiment, and relationships to help them heal their hearts after betrayal and return to their power, their truth, and create the love story they truly deserve.
Through my private coaching, group programs, and membership, I hold women in a space where they can rebuild self-trust, feel safe in love again, and create relationships that are not only thriving, but deeply nourishing.
An embodied, certified love & relationship coach for women.
My journey into why I do this work...
Before I became a coach, I thought I was living the dream. The corporate job, the relationship, the home, the holidays. On the outside, it looked like I had it all together. But inside, I was numb.
Disconnected from my body, unsure of who I really was or what I wanted. I wore independence like a badge of honour, all while quietly abandoning myself.
Then everything fell apart. My relationship ended, I lost my job, and we sold our home. The façade crumbled, and I was forced to face the truth. I had spent years proving my worth to everyone but myself. My healing began when I stopped running and chose to see it as an invitation to transform. I invested in myself, learned to feel my emotions, and created safety in my body so I could meet the parts of me I had ignored and shamed.
That journey changed everything. After navigating betrayal in my relationship and choosing to repair, I discovered the deep inner work required to rebuild intimacy, safety, and trust, first with myself, and then with my partner.
Now I guide women back to their own wholeness. I help them reconnect with their intuition, reclaim their truth, and break cycles of fear and self-abandonment so they can finally feel safe in love again.
I’m trained in trauma-informed love, sexuality, and relationship coaching, as well as somatic healing. But more than that, I’ve lived it. I’ve walked through the pain, shame, and disconnection, and I know what’s possible on the other side.
If you’re ready to stop pretending you’re “fine” & step into the love, safety, and connection you deserve.
I’m here to walk beside you.
Power Hour | One off Session
For the woman who needs clarity, direction, or immediate support. A focused one-off session to help you untangle what is happening in your relationship, identify the deeper pattern beneath it, and leave with practical next steps you can trust.
Perfect if you are moving through a triggering moment, communication breakdown, betrayal-related pain, relationship confusion, or repeating a pattern you can no longer ignore.
Includes:
1 x 90-minute Zoom session
Session recording to keep forever
Personalised homework and practices after the session
1 week of follow-up support
Investment:
£199
One Time Payment
Hear it from my amazing clients…
— Charlotte
“Working with Jess has been truly transformative. I first met her at a time when I was not in a good place, very fresh out of a tumultuous breakup that left me feeling completely lost. I felt scared, like I would never fall in love again, like I was inherently unlovable, like something was wrong with me, and that life would never get better. I really felt at rock bottom.
Something about Jess drew me in, and from our very first session, I felt safe and comfortable enough to share things I had carried for years, about my life, my childhood, and the ways I’d always felt “weird” or held back by self-doubt and judgment. She helped me confront feelings I had buried for decades, and supported me as I healed my inner child, recognising times when I hadn’t been kind to little Charlotte, the little me. Times where she needed more kindness and compassion towards herself for all she was going through.
Through Jess' guidance, I’ve come out of our sessions feeling like a new version of myself, not completely different, but much more confident, happy and more aligned with who I truly am and the woman I am becoming. I’ve started taking risks and doing things I never thought I could. I trust myself more, I recognise my value, I’m embracing every part of myself, and I’m finally able to speak my truth, use my voice, and set healthy boundaries.
Jess has been a real source of support, comfort, and accountability through one of the most challenging times in my life. I am profoundly grateful for her guidance, patience, and encouragement and I'd 100% recommend working with Jess.”
— Ava
“I was intrigued by Jess ever since we were introduced. I loved presence and after joining her sisterhood circles I knew I needed to be coached by her. Jess was able to coach me through using her own experiences which we all go through, making me feel seen and heard.
We were able to navigate through blocks and self doubt where I wasn’t validating big moves I was making. Before working with Jess I felt I was walking a tightrope not being able to see where my foot was falling next, but now I can see the path being built, I know now this is an ongoing journey. Jess has enabled me to visit parts of myself which I was ignoring, the parts which were holding me back and actually becoming louder the more I ignored them. By making friends will all versions of myself its enabled me to make clearer decisions. The biggest takeaway from Jess’ programme is that you learn that we hold the answers to what we want to know - we just need to ask the right questions and find comfort in sitting with ourselves.
Thank you, thank you, thank you Jess!”
— Alexia
“Working with Jess I was able to find my voice and confidence to speak my truth. I've been able to not be bothered by voices that don't align with what's best for me. I love how I have moved away from people pleasing naturally and unapologetically moved towards better looking after myself emotionally, spiritually and physically.
The container worked so well for me that if I did it again I would do it in the same way.
You were sensational Jess!”
— Fernanda
“The whole experience was fantastic, from the beginning stating in small steps until big changes at the end. I learnt how to generate my own space creating boundaries, getting time off for myself. I learnt how to say NO, and be kind and compassionate with myself first instead to the others.
Definitely recommend the 1:1 Coaching. There are things inside us that we never thought they were there. Every session is a surprise and full of tools and skills provided to apply in every moment.
1:1 coaching with Jess makes you aware of who you are and everything you can achieve when you become aware of the power that is within you..”
— Geminine
“Jess has helped me understand more about myself and my relationship patterns and has made me truly understand that the relationship towards myself is the most important. I have spent the last three months building a relationship with myself after breaking off a long term relationship just after we started coaching. It came at such an important time for me and for that I am so incredibly grateful.
It has given me back the confidence I have needed after coming out of a long term relationship & I can’t wait to continue on my journey. It has also made me realise that I put too much energy into the other person when it comes to relationships and tend to loose myself in the process. Something I will not be doing again!
Jess is like your self love wing woman. She is honestly the best.”
Is Coaching Right for Me?
Private intimacy coaching isn’t for everyone. It’s not about quick tips, fixing him, or surface-level advice you could find in a book.
It’s a space for women who have been carrying the weight of betrayal and are ready to finally lay it down. Women who are tired of replaying the past, second-guessing themselves, and abandoning their needs just to keep the peace.
If you long to feel safe in your body again, to rebuild trust with yourself and in love and to experience intimacy without losing who you are, this is for you. We go deeper than mindset work or talk therapy, meeting the root of what’s been keeping you stuck, so you can come back to your authenticity, your desires, and your truth.
This work is for the woman who knows she’s ready to be fully seen and held, to gently uncover the patterns that keep her looping, and to be guided back to her power. Together, we’ll navigate the waves of healing with compassion and depth, so you can finally come home to yourself and the love you deserve.
the results waiting for you…
